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Courting signals from women: setting the scene for seduction
Seduction is nothing but underplayed strategy that has the end objective of sex with a desired partner.
The drive for sex is as powerful as the physiological needs to breathe and to eat. And the final outcome of sexual satisfaction is as important as the route that we take to get there; in short, seduction.
Though the final objective is to have sex, you must take care of a number of smaller goals that must be met before your desired partner finally surrenders to you. The most important of these is to read the signals correctly.
Do you know what a woman wants? Would you like to read her thoughts - especially a woman you would like to get into the sack with? Would not it be great if you can just about fake it without letting her on to your secrets?
Given below are some right-on clues that can show you whether she is interested in you too and what her tastes are like in bed.
- Is she moving her tongue on her lips or biting her lower lip? This is a small clue, one that is probably unaware of. This is as good as crossing and uncrossing her legs or constantly touching her hair.
- If she leans towards you when you are talking, rest assured that you gave caught her attention.
- Is she in touching mode with you? If she is touching your arm or finding reasons to caress you, then you will not be alone on your bed tonight.
- Is she the kind of person who enjoys your ordering for her or taking decisions on her behalf? This means that she will be the passive receiver in bed and allow you the major role. If she prefers her hands to be tied down when in bed, then it might mean she likes bondage. Try out scarves to know her reaction.
- Observe her while she is having her food. If she is fond of her meals, especially the dessert, then try to include some chocolate syrup and whipped cream with strawberry when dong your night time thing.
- Cannot think of a novel way to turn her on? Why not rent some steamy videos with a story to boot? Go for Eyes Wide Shut, Red shoe Diaries, or Henry and June. If she enjoys the masked scenes in Eyes Wide Shut then this woman would love role playing and experimentation.
- Want to spark her mood? Arrange a picnic on your living room floor. A bottle of champagne or wine, fresh strawberries, some whipped cream, and finger foods could well be the choice for the day. This will be very romantic to say the least, and both of you would be able to show each other how much you love, in your own private space.